Wednesday, April 30, 2008

Q and lilly

here's some pics of quentin and his best friend lilly from this weekend.
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i hope to download the ones from my camera tonight if i have time after our vet visit for martini the wiener dog and guinness the cat. tini has had seizures for a few years and they seem to be picking up in frequency. she's now having a couple of weeks instead of one every few months. we may be coming home with meds for her :(

Tuesday, April 29, 2008

a dose of cute

to hold you over until i post super cute quentin and lilly pics.

quick updates

  1. the fever is gone. we stayed home from day care (and work!) yesterday and went to the pediatrician in the afternoon. it was the biggest waste of a $15 co-pay ever. when i called the dr. in the morning, he had a fever. it was gone by the time they were able to see us at 3 p.m. at least he seems like he's feeling better.
  2. quentin and his friend lilly were so cute together. i wish i could say he had fun, but spent a good portion of friday and saturday screaming his head off due to the fever. he had fun on sunday though. pics will be coming as soon as i download them from my camera!
  3. monday real estate update - no showings this week. boooo. so now the biggest question for us - do we drop the price again, for the last time, to the absolute lowest we could go, and leave ZERO room for negotiation??? it's so hard to know what to do. if we lower it and it sells, great. but what if it doesn't? after this potential price drop, there will be nothing else for us to do. we cannot be in a situation where we not only lose the money we put into the house but also have to pay out cash at closing for the mortgage and realtor fees. stupid house.

Saturday, April 26, 2008

you give me fever

Fever in the morning Fever when it's late at night You give me fever q has his first fever :( he felt a little warm when i picked him up from day care yesterday and sure enough, after a thermometer up the butt, 101.8. poor kid. he's so crabby. we're just pushing the tylenol and motrin, which seems to be working which is good. he's just doing a lot of crying. unfortunate since his best friend since before birth, lilly, is here to visit.

Wednesday, April 23, 2008

look what i can do!

quentin is so enamored with his new skill. tonight he was showing off - he was holding on with only one arm and balancing quite well.

Tuesday, April 22, 2008

monday real estate update

best one in a while... woo hoo! we had 4 showings last week - twice the standard. but wait, there's more. someone will be renting our house out for 2 months (may and june) while he waits to close on a house he bought elsewhere in richmond. so that's two months of rent that will help offset mortgage payments, two months free from a second set of power and utilities bills, and two months without having to pay the dude who mows our lawn there. and the best part, the house will stay on the market the entire time and will still be available for showings. it is a mutually beneficial arrangement. so we're in a good place, at least for the next two months!

Monday, April 21, 2008

my future's so bright (i have to wear shades)

thanks to Q's aunt leah for this.
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it looks like Q had a good chance of becoming a pro athlete, until they changed the dates on him!
from slate.com:

The Boys of Late Summer

Why do so many pro baseball players have August birthdays?

By Greg SpiraPosted Wednesday, April 16, 2008, at 7:16 AM ET In Major League Baseball, there are a lot more Juan Pierres than there are players like Alex Rodriguez. Yes, Pierre is a light hitter, and A-Rod is one of the greatest sluggers of all time, but there's another important difference between the two: Pierre was born in August, and Rodriguez was born in July.

In 2000, John Holway argued in a book called The Baseball Astrologer that the sign under which an individual was born played a significant role in whether he made it in pro ball. Holway identified a real phenomenon, but the explanation does not lie in the stars. Since 1950, a baby born in the United States in August has had a 50 percent to 60 percent better chance of making the big leagues than a baby born in July. The lesson: If you want your child to be a professional baseball player, you should start planning early. Very early. As in before conception.

The table below lays out the full month-to-month data. As of the 2005 season, 503 Americans born in August had made it to the major leagues compared with 313 American born in July. (In this article, the United States refers to the 50 states and the District of Columbia but not territories like Puerto Rico. And again, these are players born since 1950, and the data are current through 2005.)

The pattern is unmistakable. From August through the following July, there is a steady decline in the likelihood that a child born in the United States will become a major leaguer. Meanwhile, among players born outside the 50 states, there are some hints of a pattern but nothing significant enough to reach any conclusions. An analysis of the birth dates of players in baseball's minor leagues between 1984 and 2000 finds similar patterns, with American-born players far more likely to have been born in August than July. The birth-month pattern among Latin American minor leaguers is very different—if anything, they're more likely to be born toward the end of the year, in October, November, and December. The magical date of Aug. 1 gives a strong hint as to the explanation for this phenomenon. For more than 55 years, July 31 has been the age-cutoff date used by virtually all nonschool-affiliated baseball leagues in the United States. Youth baseball organizations including Little League, Cal Ripken/Babe Ruth, PONY, Dixie Youth, Hap Dumont, Dizzy Dean, American Legion, and more have long used that date to determine which players are eligible for which levels of play. (There is no such commonly used cutoff date in Latin America.) The result: In almost every American youth league, the oldest players are the ones born in August, and the youngest are those with July birthdays. For example, someone born on July 31, 1990, would almost certainly have been the youngest player on his youth team in 2001, his first year playing in the 11-and-12-year-olds league, and of average age in 2002, his second year in the same league. Someone born on Aug. 1, 1989, by contrast, would have been of average age in 2001, his first year playing in the 11-and-12-year-olds division, and would almost certainly be the oldest player in the league in 2002.

Twelve full months of development makes a huge difference for an 11- or 12-year-old. The player who is 12 months older will, on average, be bigger, stronger, and more coordinated than his younger counterpart, not to mention more experienced. And those bigger, better players are the ones given opportunities for further advancement. Other players, who are just as skilled for their age, are less likely to be given those same opportunities simply because of when they were born. Alex Rodriguez would've been a star no matter his birth month, but a player like Juan Pierre, who has less natural aptitude for the sport, might have gotten a small leg up over similarly skilled players because he's an August baby. It's clear from the chart above that this small advantage can have an impact that lasts a lifetime.

This phenomenon will not come as news to social scientists, who have observed the same patterns in a number of different sports. The first major study of what has become known as the "relative age effect" was published in the Journal of the Canadian Association for Health, Physical Education, and Recreation in 1985. This study, by R.H. Barnsley, A.H. Thompson, and P.E. Barnsley, determined that NHL players of the early 1980s were more than four times as likely to be born in the first three months of the calendar year as the last three months. In 2005, a larger study on the relative age effect in European youth soccer was published in the Journal of Sports Sciences by Werner F. Helsen, Jan Van Winckel, and A. Mark Williams. This study found a large relative age effect in almost every European country, though it seems to shrink in adult leagues and is less significant in women's soccer. (Stephen J. Dubner and Steven D. Levitt of Freakonomics fame wrote about the age effect in European soccer for the New York Times Magazine.)

Interestingly enough, the relative age effect doesn't appear in the two other major American sports leagues. (These data on NBA and NFL players born since 1950 were provided by Sean Lahman, who has edited encyclopedias on pro football and basketball.)

The relative age effect might not be prevalent in the NFL and the NBA because size is a bigger factor in those two sports than in baseball and hockey. Since an athlete's ultimate height and weight aren't clear until fairly late in his youth, league cutoff dates aren't as important in determining one's athletic destiny. Another possibility is that (men's) basketball and football are much more popular high-school sports than baseball is. Since the cutoff date for high-school sports is more variable than that for organized youth sports, the influence of birth month in youth basketball and football leagues is relatively minor.

If you find all this data convincing, perhaps you're already planning an August birth for your little slugger. Not so fast. In 2005, USA Baseball, the nation's governing body for amateur baseball, announced it was shifting the "league age determination date" from July 31 to April 30. This change was made so the age-cutoff times more closely jibed with the baseball calendar: Under the previous rules, a player who turned 13 on July 30 would've been ineligible to play in that summer's 12-and-under league despite the fact that he would've been 12 years old for the entire season.

At first, this change was fiercely debated by the various youth baseball organizations, many of whom couldn't even agree on one date internally. It looked possible, then, that parents might be able to shop among different youth baseball organizations, blunting the impact of the relative age effect. However, this year, for the first time, all the major youth baseball organizations have fallen in line and will be using the April 30 cutoff date. Future Juan Pierres, take note: If you want to make it in the majors, forget about August. Make sure you're born in May.

Thursday, April 17, 2008

you know you need more sleep when...

in the midst of making a pasta salad concoction for a potluck at work the next day, you start thinking about all the things you need to make sure you do in the morning before you leave the house... take the pasta salad out of the fridge... bring the baby's shoes, sweater, and hat so he can play outside... etc. then your brain starts thinking about your schedule at work the next day... what meetings do you have? do you have a lunch meeting? no lunch meeting, guess you have to pack a lunch to bring... dumbass. you are making something for the POTLUCK LUNCH. you do not need to bring lunch, dummy. i need more sleep.

Tuesday, April 15, 2008

uh oh.

the boy can stand. he shocked the heck out of linda at day care by pulling himself up on the "baby corral" and proceeded to do it several times today. he showed us his new trick tonight by pulling himself up on daddy while playing on the floor. ain't no stopping him now...

i'll take a Q

so yeah, babies aren't supposed to watch TV. but then why did god make them love it so much??? quentin really seemed to like watching football -all the colors, movement, noise, etc. but his new favorite is watching the wheel (hey! it's educational!) he will be happily playing in his exersaucer and as soon as the wheel intro music starts, he whips around to watch. wheel has the colors and movement he likes. and he likes pat sajak. but he also likes elmo's voice a whole lot, so i am not sure what that says about sajak. he's not a big fan of jeopardy, though. sorry trebek.

Saturday, April 12, 2008

too big to have fun?

i weighed quentin a couple of days ago and he clocked in at 26 pounds, which means he's "too heavy" to jump in the jumperoo and swing in the swing. he's also too big for the changing table on the pack n play, and only 4 pounds away from being too big for the entire pack n play. guess it's time to invest in one of those superyards and build him a baby corral like he has at day care! poor kid. i'm not sure we're ready to give up the jumperoo!

Saturday, April 5, 2008

i want to be a supermodel

since quentin would not sit still on real easter we had to get professional pics taken of him in his easter outfit. he definitely wanted to eat the bunny. and he's been asked to be a supermodel at babies r us! their photographers need to pass some certifications (baby, toddler, etc.) and one of them just needs to do baby to be done. the lady said they try to set the photographers up with "easy" babies who will practically guarantee good photos, and since Q is so cute and smiley he fits the bill. they're supposed to call us and set something up :)

somebunny to love

on easter quentin wore his bunny suit out and about in williamsburg. jeremy and i had bought the bunny suit from the clearance bin at target after easter last year, before the Q was even born. yes, it's may be cruel, but the pics are so damn cute. several people at williamsburg stopped and asked us if they could take his picture too. he made a lot of people smile :)
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it was hard to get a decent photo of him because this was also his first experience with grass. he was enthralled and wanted nothing more than to eat handfuls of the green stuff (like a true bunny, i suppose!)

Wednesday, April 2, 2008

8 months old!

quentin is 8 months old today and is rapidly becoming a little dude. he's crawling like a maniac and you can't turn your back for even a moment because he will be in to something he's not supposed to be in. he's even pulling himself up to a pseudo-standing position. he'll be walking before we know it! we ordered the deluxe baby gates to install at the bottom and top of the staircase. let the baby-proofing commence! quentin tried several new foods today. he had a couple of cheerios at day care today, though he hasn't quite mastered chewing yet. linda actually emailed me to see if he could try some because the big boys were eating them and he REALLY wanted to munch cheerios like them. at home tonight he had his first tastes of fruit with oatmeal with bananas and a pear / pineapple combo that his grandpa had bought for him a while ago. both were thoroughly enjoyed! photos forthcoming (our office is in a massive state of disarray as we finally get to unpacking the last of the boxes from the move - can't get to the computer to load the pics!)